Confused and Misguided
Page 4 - June 15, 1999
Since discovering my sexual preference, I
have been totally and utterly confused. First of all, I have kinda
been involved with this really butch lesbian that I think could be in love
with me. The problem that I have is that she acted as if though she
was head-over-heels in love with me. I can't say that I felt the
same way. Although I have had feelings for her, she just isn't my
cup tea, or so I thought. To top it all off, just when I thought
that I was "ready" for her, she goes straggling back to one of her Ex's.
Did I wait too late? Have all chances with her been lost? What
am I to do now?
Dear C & M,
This really bites the big one! Sounds
as though you really have a problem!(maybe something that a little phycological
counceling could help with). Are you sure that there isn't more to
this story than you are letting on? If you really are having feelings
for your "butch lesbian" friend, then I suggest that you try making a phone
call to her and let her know how you feel, could be that she just gave
up on waiting on you. Just remember, if you're out to pasture with
the other heffers you have to eat when the food is there. You just
can't stand there and chew on the old cud!
Hope this helped!
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